In the summer of 1998 I had a dream. I was led into a round room. I knew it was a space ship. I don't know how I knew, I just did. In the room was a U-shaped table with chairs placed around the table. The open end was facing a wall with a board on it. I got the feeling that it was a classroom. A few people were already sitting around the table waiting for the rest of the people to show. I took a chair toward the left of the room and sat down. People were starting to file into the room. A young girl around 18 and a young man around 25 came in and sat across from me. Then a mature man came in. He was tall, had blonde hair and blue eyes and sat directly across from me. He smiled at me and I said Hi. He continued to stare at me, smiling all the time.

Suddenly the teacher appeared at the open end of the U-shaped table. I've seen this teacher before when I had the dream about being taken on the space ship with the two children I baby-sat for. He's a tall grey but I've never seen his face and couldn't see his face this time either. I can only see him up to his shoulders. He spoke for a while but I couldn't remember what he said. He proceeded to tell the "class" that he was going to start pairing us off. He started at the open end of the table and by the time he got to me, he looked at me, then looked at the blonde haired man and said, "You (pointing at me) and you (pointing at the blonde man) are supposed to be together." He didn't say that to anyone else, just to the both of us. I thought, at the time, it was sort of strange that he put it that way. I don't know why, I just I thought it was strange. So the blonde man and I got up and walked out the door. That was the end of the dream.

In July 1999, I went to a meeting I attend monthly and at the beginning of the meeting, one of the lecturers was complaining that no one comes to the meetings any more. I decided the next night I'd send out some emails over the Internet to let people know of the monthly meetings.

I did a member search on AOL and found about a dozen people that might be interested in the meetings. One of the people was named "Dave" and he lived out in the eastern end of Long Island. For some reason, his profile stuck in my mind. So I blind copied each person and let the universe take care of the rest.

The next meeting was on August 11, 1999, an astrologically intense day. There was a Grand Trine in the Fixed Signs and a Solar eclipse at 18 degrees 15 minutes Leo which is the exact degrees and minutes of my Ascendant. All day very intense things were going on at work and by the time I got to the meeting, I was in a strange mood which is very unlikely for me. There were already about a dozen people waiting for the lecturers who were running a little bit late. I was sitting looking down thinking about my day when I felt someone standing in front of me. I looked up and saw a man standing directly in front of me. He walked past everyone else and stood right in front of me. He had blonde hair and blue eyes and looked exactly like the man that I'd met a year ago in that dream. At first I was shocked, but since these things have happen to me all my life, I wasn't too surprised. He said, "Hi, I'm "Dave". I said, "Hi, my name is Debbie. The lecturers aren't here yet, they're running late, have a seat they should be here shortly." He sat down and at this point I got a connection to him.

I could tell he was a nice man but had a difficult life. He appeared happy on the outside but was not happy inside. I also got the feeling he could break a girl's heart and probably has done so many times; not intentionally though. Within a short time, one of the lecturers arrived and was surprised to see so many people at the meeting that night. At the end of the meeting the other lecturer introduced himself to "Dave". I heard bits and pieces of his conversation and eventually went home. I felt an immediate connection to "Dave" because of the dream. I knew I'd see him again.

Dave came to the next 5 meetings and always sat next to me. Dave did not attend the January, February or March 2000 meetings and I thought I might not see him again. I missed the April and May meetings (I had guitar lessons). A week later I began to have dreams about Dave. I don't remember the details of the dream, but I'd wake up thinking about him. I thought this was strange since I hadn't seen him for a while. One of the lecturers (Peter) called me to tell me about the details of the meetings that I missed. He told me that Dave spoke at one of the meetings and that he was the owner of a Research Center. I thought that that may be the reason I was dreaming about him.

I was cleaning out my library of extra books that I had and one of them was about the Physics of the Spirit. I knew I had to give Dave this book. From the middle of May until the next meeting, I dreamt of Dave every day. I could not understand why I was constantly thinking about him. I felt that I had some sort of spiritual connection to him but for what reason, I have no idea. Finally the June 2000 meeting came and at the end of the meeting I gave him the book. He said he always wanted to read this particular book and had another one by the same author.

He asked me for my e-mail address and I asked him if he has an AOL address. He thought for a while and said no. I knew that he was lying because I knew that he was the Dave that I had sent an e-mail to almost a year before. I think he didn't want me to know he was one of the people I emailed but I couldn't understand why. It wasn't that important, I just thought it was a little odd. Anyway, I told him that I wanted to give him another book, said good night to him and left.

As I got into my car, something told me, "You're going to see a UFO tomorrow." The next day at about 4:00pm I saw this small dark black elliptical object about 1/4 inch long fly by my office. It went by extremely slow so I knew it couldn't be a plane. It was a very overcast day and I could see the atmosphere move around this object. I've seen loads of planes fly by at this same altitude and they never flew that slow. I had the intense feeling that it was a UFO.

Dave sent me an e-mail about a physics essay he wrote and that I'd probably not understand it. I actually did understand the essay because I have an education in science and math; amongst other things. I responded by telling him that we were spiritually connected. I didn't go into lots of details because I wanted to explain it to him in person. I also told him about the UFO I saw. I asked him for his birth date so I could do an astrological chart for him. I knew that if he didn't respond, he was probably a Scorpio. He never responded.

A week later Peter called me to say, Oh I hear you're spiritually connected to Dave. I was a little taken back by that because I felt that what I wrote to Dave was private and that Dave took it as a joke. Otherwise, why would he tell someone else about my e-mail? I told him that I was but didn't go into any detail. I felt that if Dave thought I was a joke, I was going to keep this story to myself. He told me that Dave didn't know his exact birth date. I did ask him what sign he was and he told me he was a Scorpio.

I finally got the other book that I wanted to give to Dave and also found a black snow flake obsidian pyramid that I knew I had to give him. Obsidian is a stone that is used for protection and I knew he would need spiritual protection someday. He didn't come to the next few meetings. When he finally arrived at the October 2000 meeting I gave him the book and pyramid after the meeting. We spoke for a few minutes. He wanted me to go to the diner with the others so we could talk but I couldn't because it was very late and I had to go to work the next day. I knew he had a lot to talk about with Peter and it would be difficult for us to talk, so I said good night to him. I also knew that that night would be the last time I'd ever see him.

Months went by and I never heard a word about the book and pyramid I gave Dave. I thought that he was angry with me or something, but I couldn't figure out why. In December 2000 he wrote to me to thank me for the book and pyramid and wished me a happy holiday. He told me he wrote to me a weeks before and never heard from me. I never received an e-mail from him or I would have responded.

In February 2001 he wrote to me and wished me a Happy Valentine's Day and said he'd be at the February meeting. I was planning to go to the February meeting because my guitar lessons didn't begin for another month, but Dave never showed up. That was the last time I went to the meetings for a long time. I had guitar lessons the same night the meetings were held so I was unable to get to the meetings.

I thought about Dave from time to time but not on a regular basis as I did a year before. In the summer of 2001, I had another dream about Dave; this one included my spirit guide, Helen. Typically, before I go to bed every night, I ask Helen to give me information or teach me something I need to know. I don't always remember what she tells me or the dream I have but this night was interesting.

In the dream I'm standing in a party like setting. I got the feeling it was sort of a cocktail hour type of setting. Helen and another girl (whom I don't know) are standing next to me at a salad bar. Helen leaves us there and comes back a few seconds later and says to me, "I just talked to Dave and told him that if he wants to meeting his soul mate to go to the salad bar. She told me to stand by the middle of the salad bar and said, "Here he comes now!"

Suddenly a girl with dark hair intercepted him and started talking to him. He thought she was his soul mate sine Helen told him he'd meet his soul mate at the salad bar. They walked off together and Dave didn't even notice me. The girl that was with me and Helen said, "Oh my God! He went off with the wrong person!" I thought this was funny because Helen wanted to set him up with me. She felt that we belonged together. I have no idea why. She became furious and said, "That asshole! He's supposed to be with you! The both of you are soul mates!"

I told her to calm down. It wasn't that important. (I felt that Helen was more insulted than I was. It was as though he was snubbing her.) She said, "Fuck him, he doesn't deserve you anyway. You're psychic and he's not!" I couldn't understand why she was so pissed off by him. I told her that if he wants to be with that girl, then so be it. If I can deal with it, so should she. Besides this girl was young, thin and beautiful; all the things I'm not. There's no way he'd want to be seen with me. (That's just the way it is in this world.)

Then I woke up and the first thing I thought was, "Why was Helen so mad?" I know she has a temper but she really went off in this dream. I do believe that people have soul mates; I just don't think that I do or ever will which is why I wasn't too surprised that Dave went off with someone else. I didn't think Helen was lying to me, I just thought she was misguided in this instance.

After that dream I completely lost the spiritual connection with Dave. I no longer thought about him. It was as though I went through a strange dimension for a couple of years. In the beginning of November 2001, out of no where, I got this spiritual message about Dave. I knew he was in trouble and in a bad space emotionally and spiritually. This message came to me as I was walking into the kitchen to get something to drink. I stopped suddenly when I got this message. I sent him Reiki energy and knew that he'd be OK. Even though he'd be in fear, I knew he'd be protected and nothing would happen to him.

The strange part was that I never even gave the fact that he was scared a second thought. I knew he was afraid of something and did what I had to do to protect him spiritually. I never wondered why he'd be in fear. I found out later that he had to give up his research center and his fear came from people who wanted to take over his business and threatened him. His research delved into things that humanity is not prepared for at this time.

Dave is a very powerful individual and is capable of things that he may not be aware of. He takes a more scientific approach to life when the answers really lie in the spirit; in the things that can't be seen. Science can explain this dimension, but not the others. That's where the spirit comes in. I think these people knew that if he ever realized this, he'd be a formidable power to reckon with and they can't have that.

I had a dream about him a few months later. I was walking down a street and Dave was on the other side of the street. I waved to him and said Hi and he waved back. That was it. As of the last spiritual incident and dream, I've had no spiritual contact with Dave. I've thought about him and hoped he was happy, but that was about all. I don't know what part I played in Dave's life, if at all. Maybe my purpose was to send him psychic protection. I guess I'll know when I go to the other side. After all, we are not meant to know everything.